Why We DON'T Do The Things We WANT To Do

Why We DON'T Do The Things We WANT To Do

Update: 2025-12-12
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We explore how mental habits form, why fear sits at the front of the mind, and how reframing, second thoughts, and small wins create real change. We share stories about weight, visibility, and guilt, and end with practical tools for forgiveness and inner parenting.

• using the event–interpretation–emotion model to see choices
• catalog, category, curator: how the mind stores meaning
• fear-first interpretation and its costs
• second thought method to surface hidden beliefs
• visibility, safety, and weight loss reframes
• self-love as a practical foundation, not conceit
• small wins over grand targets to build trust
• breaking the guilt–punishment cycle
• observation over criticism to grow engagement
• training resistance and the anterior cingulate cortex
• forgiveness as letting love come first
• extracting wisdom from old wounds to reassign meaning

Our goal is to be helpful, to help people learn how their mind works and how they can use it to their own advantage and how our mind can really be the most powerful tool because it's where everything begins.


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Why We DON'T Do The Things We WANT To Do

Why We DON'T Do The Things We WANT To Do

Hilary & Les