E179 - Stop Settling for ‘Meh’ Sex: What Women Aren’t Asking (But Need to Know)
Update: 2025-09-10
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Sequel September is serving spice, besties- and we’re bringing back a fan-favorite guest: sex therapist + registered psychologist Erin Musick. If you remember Episode 97, you know Erin does not hold back when it comes to orgasms, desire, and all the messy, mind-blowing things in between.
This time, we’re diving even deeper. From the infamous SAR test (aka: 14 hours of porn 👀) to busting Cosmo-era sex myths, Erin is here to unpack the lies we’ve been fed about female pleasure and why so many of us are still carrying shame in 2025. We’re talking quirks, kinks, masturbation, casual sex without catching feelings, relationship dry spells, and yes…whether faking it ever has a place in your bedroom.
Nothing is off-limits: butt plugs, pegging, poop photos (yup, that one too), and the truth about what makes a kink healthy vs. a red flag. Erin also drops her best big-sister advice for single women, moms re-entering the dating pool, and couples navigating mismatched libidos.
Bottom line? If you’re ready to ditch the shame, spice up your sex life, and finally get answers to the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask, this episode is your permission slip.
-About Ashlyn-
Ashlyn Gunderson is a mom, wife, business owner, life-long learner, and lover of all things words. In the last decade, Ashlyn has established herself as an academic and health expert who specializes in all things personal development and growth.
Outside of growing a family and a business, Ashlyn enjoys pouring her passion into reading books, creating poetry, writing blogs, and sharing her most authentic self with her virtual community of listeners.
-Our Business-
Perfectfit4u Health Coaching works with clients all over the globe to achieve their personal wellness goals through customized virtual coaching services. Perfectfit4u transforms the health and the lives of its members by providing supreme knowledge, unmatched accountability, and continued support.
-Things Heard on This Episode-
Erin's IG - https://www.instagram.com/thesextherapistyogi/
Ashlyn's Blog - www.authenticallyashlyn.ca
Ashlyn's Personal Development Course - www.ashlynsschoolpd.thinkific.com
-Connect with Ashlyn-
Facebook: bit.ly/3S0M1IP
Instagram: bit.ly/3qyOa2E
Youtube: bit.ly/3BxMs82
TikTok: bit.ly/3qxdPst
Website: www.perfectfit4u.ca/
Email: info@perfectfit4u.ca
This time, we’re diving even deeper. From the infamous SAR test (aka: 14 hours of porn 👀) to busting Cosmo-era sex myths, Erin is here to unpack the lies we’ve been fed about female pleasure and why so many of us are still carrying shame in 2025. We’re talking quirks, kinks, masturbation, casual sex without catching feelings, relationship dry spells, and yes…whether faking it ever has a place in your bedroom.
Nothing is off-limits: butt plugs, pegging, poop photos (yup, that one too), and the truth about what makes a kink healthy vs. a red flag. Erin also drops her best big-sister advice for single women, moms re-entering the dating pool, and couples navigating mismatched libidos.
Bottom line? If you’re ready to ditch the shame, spice up your sex life, and finally get answers to the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask, this episode is your permission slip.
-About Ashlyn-
Ashlyn Gunderson is a mom, wife, business owner, life-long learner, and lover of all things words. In the last decade, Ashlyn has established herself as an academic and health expert who specializes in all things personal development and growth.
Outside of growing a family and a business, Ashlyn enjoys pouring her passion into reading books, creating poetry, writing blogs, and sharing her most authentic self with her virtual community of listeners.
-Our Business-
Perfectfit4u Health Coaching works with clients all over the globe to achieve their personal wellness goals through customized virtual coaching services. Perfectfit4u transforms the health and the lives of its members by providing supreme knowledge, unmatched accountability, and continued support.
-Things Heard on This Episode-
Erin's IG - https://www.instagram.com/thesextherapistyogi/
Ashlyn's Blog - www.authenticallyashlyn.ca
Ashlyn's Personal Development Course - www.ashlynsschoolpd.thinkific.com
-Connect with Ashlyn-
Facebook: bit.ly/3S0M1IP
Instagram: bit.ly/3qyOa2E
Youtube: bit.ly/3BxMs82
TikTok: bit.ly/3qxdPst
Website: www.perfectfit4u.ca/
Email: info@perfectfit4u.ca
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