DiscoverHOW I SEE ITMORE THAN A FEELING: HEALING TOXIC DATING PATTERNS, DEVELOPING HEALTHY ATTACHMENT, THE BEAUTY IN BEING SINGLE, AND THE PROBLEM IN ATTACHING OUR VALUE TO OUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS with Ilana Dunn
MORE THAN A FEELING: HEALING TOXIC DATING PATTERNS, DEVELOPING HEALTHY ATTACHMENT, THE BEAUTY IN BEING SINGLE, AND THE PROBLEM IN ATTACHING OUR VALUE TO OUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS with Ilana Dunn

MORE THAN A FEELING: HEALING TOXIC DATING PATTERNS, DEVELOPING HEALTHY ATTACHMENT, THE BEAUTY IN BEING SINGLE, AND THE PROBLEM IN ATTACHING OUR VALUE TO OUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS with Ilana Dunn

Update: 2025-07-29
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#112: On today's episode, Ilana Dunn, host of the Seeing Other People podcast, jumps on the podcast to share unapologetic dating advice. She gets into her own dating history, healing toxic dating patterns, and how she got behind the mic. The girls get into:

  • the difference between oversharing and authenticity on dates
  • finding value and happiness within ourselves
  • redefining partnership and our expectations for our life partner
  • finding wholeness within ourselves, instead of another person
  • finding a partner that is an asset to your life
  • the problem with over romanticizing relationships
  • the beauty in being single
  • the problem with putting pressure on our partner to fulfill us/create our happiness
  • the problem with attaching our value to our relationship status


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work with Han: howhanseesit@gmail.com

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MORE THAN A FEELING: HEALING TOXIC DATING PATTERNS, DEVELOPING HEALTHY ATTACHMENT, THE BEAUTY IN BEING SINGLE, AND THE PROBLEM IN ATTACHING OUR VALUE TO OUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS with Ilana Dunn

MORE THAN A FEELING: HEALING TOXIC DATING PATTERNS, DEVELOPING HEALTHY ATTACHMENT, THE BEAUTY IN BEING SINGLE, AND THE PROBLEM IN ATTACHING OUR VALUE TO OUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS with Ilana Dunn

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