What happens when the truth about a loved one’s suicide is revealed decades later? In this profoundly moving episode, Lisa opens up about her own story of “grieving in reverse” after learning that her father's death wasn’t what she had believed for 35 years.

 

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🧠 Episode Summary:

Lisa shares the painful and profoundly personal journey of discovering the truth about her father's death—35 years after it happened. What follows is a raw conversation about “grieving in reverse,” processing hidden trauma, and the courage to reframe our grief through radical acceptance and truth-telling.

 

 
🔍 Lessons Learned:

• The truth, even when delayed, has healing power.


• There is no expiration date on grief—or the right time to begin healing.


• Suicide is not a selfish act, but often the result of untreated mental illness.


• Rebuilding your narrative can help you honor your past and your future.


• Vulnerability fosters connection—and storytelling saves lives.

 

 
⏱️ Chapters:

00:00 – Trigger Warning & Opening

01:10 – What is “Grieving in Reverse”?

03:30 – Lisa’s Story: A Life Changed by One Conversation

07:50 – The Impact of Delayed Truth

13:00 – High Functioning Depression & Missed Signs

16:00 – Therapy, Support, and Letting Yourself Feel

19:15 – Rebuilding the Narrative After Loss

24:00 – Honoring a Loved One’s Legacy

26:05 – If I Could Talk to My Dad Now…

28:30 – Key Takeaways & Closing Thoughts

31:00 – Help Is Always Available

 

 

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