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Why Change Feels So Damn Hard

Why Change Feels So Damn Hard

Update: 2025-05-16
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Ever started a new diet, workout plan, or business and thought, “This is it — I’ve got this!”… only to hit a wall a few weeks in and wonder why everything suddenly feels so damn hard?

Yeah. Same.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the Emotional Cycle of Change — a totally normal (and totally brutal) process we all go through when we try to make meaningful changes in our lives.

Whether it’s fat loss, fitness, launching a side hustle, or surviving motherhood, there’s a reason you feel amazing in week 1… and completely overwhelmed in week 4.

I’m sharing:

    • What the 5 emotional stages of change actually look like (with real-life stories)
    • Why so many of us quit just before things get good
    • My own valley-of-despair meltdown moment from this week (yep, it was rough)
    • Practical strategies to keep going when every bone in your body wants to bail
    • How to reconnect with your “why” when motivation disappears
    • Why high-fiving yourself in the mirror might be the missing piece

PLUS: insights from Ryan Holiday, Simon Sinek, Brené Brown, Mel Robbins and neuroscience-backed mindset tools that will change how you think about progress forever.

If you’re in that messy middle, wondering if it’s all worth it — this episode is your permission slip to keep going.

🧠 You’re not broken. You’re just in the valley. Let’s walk through it together.

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Why Change Feels So Damn Hard

Why Change Feels So Damn Hard

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