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307: What if you fell hard for the scam?

307: What if you fell hard for the scam?

Update: 2024-02-0611


A woman growing up in poverty in Jamaica is abandoned by her mother at an early age, and as her story of unworthiness deepens, she falls prey to a cruel world.  

Today’s episode featured Donna Hayes. Donna has written a memoir that includes further details about her incredible journey called These Broken Roads, which you can find on Amazon. You can also find out more about her on her website, and learn about her coaching practice at You can find her on social media on Instagram @iamdonna_hayes and if you’d like to reach out to her, you can email her at

Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock

Content/Trigger Warnings: animal cruelty, parental neglect, domestic violence, explicit language


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Comments (1)

Denise Nichols

I have never trusted men.They always so new cootie.Their brain need a kick in the nuts that will travel to the brain. lol,I only had to travel down that road once.Havnt been with a man since I was I was 21.Never missed it !! been with my GF for 35 yrs.

Feb 8th








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307: What if you fell hard for the scam?

307: What if you fell hard for the scam?