Podcast #664

FINDING YOUR PERSON: BEING SINGLE WITH CONFIDENCE











Whether you’re single and hoping to meet your person, or in a relationship and reflecting on the journey that got you here, this episode is packed with mindset shifts and confidence coaching to help you thrive where you are. We’re talking about how to navigate singleness without shame, how to attract aligned love by showing up as your best self, and how to live fully — not just wait around — while “your person” is still on their way. It’s time to stop seeing singleness as a problem and start embracing it as a preparation ground for your next level.

This episode will help you build confidence in your singleness, shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance in dating, and give you empowering strategies for staying grounded, hopeful, and joyfully expectant as you wait for your person.

Myths About Singleness That Keep You Stuck 







* "Something is wrong with me"







* "I'm running out of time"







* "Everyone else is ahead"







* "Maybe I’m too much / not enough"







* → Reframe each one with truth + confidence







The Power of Being Confidently Single 







* Why confidence is attractive, magnetic, and grounding







* What it means to be “single and not searching, but open”







* How confidence shifts your energy from desperation to invitation







* Being single is not waiting — it’s becoming







Who You Become While You're Single Matters More Than You Think 







* The concept of “becoming the kind of person you want to attract”







* Building the life you love before you share it







* High-value women don’t wait to be chosen — they choose themselves







* Self-respect > settling







How to Stay Hopeful Without Obsessing 







* Practice presence and gratitude daily







* Set relationship goals without tying them to your identity







* Write love letters to your future person







* Prayer/journaling prompts to align your energy







Practical Confidence Boosters for Dating & Singleness 







* Affirmations like:



* “I’m whole with or without a partner.”







* “The right person will see me and value me.”







* “I am a magnet for healthy, aligned love.”











* Dating boundaries: Know your worth, communicate it clearly







* Red flag awareness vs. emotional overthinking







* Energy check: Am I dating from fear or from fullness?







Faith-Focused Encouragement 







* Trusting God’s timing without losing your joy







* Psalm 37:4 – delighting in Him while He aligns your heart’s desires







* Surrender doesn’t mean giving up—it means trusting with open hands







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