Welcome to another episode of "My Inner Knowing," where Hosts Walker and Theresa delve into profound conversations and personal journeys.

Today, we are thrilled to introduce our special guest, Chiwoo Choi. In his mid-thirties, Chiwoo reflects on his exploration of masculinity and overcoming deep-seated insecurities, with invaluable support from his partner, Marley.

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Join us as Chiwoo shares the pivotal moments that shaped his growth, from grappling with unhealthy behaviors rooted in his middle school years to learning the complexity of simply being himself. Through relatable anecdotes, like seeing himself in a character from Shrek, and learning to trust and be vulnerable in his relationship, Chiwoo illustrates the transformative power of inner knowing.

Together, we’ll explore the dynamics of recognizing helpful feedback versus gaslighting, and discuss the importance of direct, open communication in building trust. Chiwoo opens up about the emotional struggles of longing for more children, overcoming panic attacks, and finding spiritual lessons in unexpected events.

This episode is packed with insights into the journey of self-discovery, confronting past traumas, and embracing the growth that comes from making mistakes. Chiwoo’s experience of becoming a stepfather, the strength required to challenge toxic masculinity, and the warmth of a supportive partnership are themes that resonate deeply.

Tune in as we celebrate the courage to face discomfort, the wisdom gained from introspection, and the joy of following one's inner knowing. You won’t want to miss this heartfelt and inspiring conversation with Chiwoo Choi.

00:00 Trusting intuition after making mistakes, feeling calm.

06:49 Longing for a daughter during a flight.

12:18 Finding joy and accepting desire for children.

19:41 Embarrassing encounter with conservative host mother.

25:21 Spiritual connections helped improve psoriasis condition significantly.

31:06 Bat enters room, can't prevent, focused breathing.

33:07 Bat encounter led to spiritual revelations.

39:56 Navigating insecurities, jealousy, and masculinity with partner.

48:43 Struggling with communication and trust issues.

51:18 Navigating feedback in relationships and personal growth.

59:38 Struggle with partner's past relationship trauma.

01:01:06 Learning to be free and loved again.

01:06:15 Welcoming exploration, curiosity, self-growth, and compassion.