EP22: From People Pleaser to Soul Pleaser in Business and Life with Tracy Secombe
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From People Pleaser to Soul Pleaser in Business and Life with Tracy Secombe
Being compassionate and empathic are admirable traits, but when you're out of your way to impress others, you might get trapped in the people-pleasing trap, which negatively impacts your well-being.
People-pleasing may diminish your sense of self-worth, and you'll start feeling sorry for yourself. Experts say it's safer to be yourself and risk not pleasing others than to be stressed and pressured to bend over to please people.
Our guest for today's episode has been a people-pleaser and learned her lessons the hard way in dealing with the condition. Tracy Secombe inherited her father's entrepreneurial spirit and has run her businesses since she was 18 years old. She ended up burnt out after years of pushing herself to prove she was good enough. When she realized that pleasing her soul was her internal driver, she consistently aligned with her passion and purpose and created her latest business, Soul Pleaser, in a state of ease and flow.
Life is a balance between giving and take. Learn not just always to offer but also bring in something so that you can provide even more. Catch the drift of appreciating yourself, prioritizing your needs, and boosting your self-worth. Watch the full show or listen to the podcast of "From People Pleaser to Soul Pleaser in Business and Life with Tracy Secombe."
Key areas we covered in this episode:
- Tracy's soul-stirring life story, juggling life and jumping around not just one but several successful businesses. Tracy shared, "I do business for the fun of it, and I wasn't very attached to the results, which I think is why we were successful."
- Gain insights from how Tracy noticed the signs of burn-out and how she managed to not say YES to everything.
- Get the message of how a life-changing event became an eye-opener for Tracy to shift from being a people pleaser to a soul pleaser.
- "I look happy, but I'm not." Having these sentiments is a red flag. Tracy gives the facts on the root of these issues and how to overcome them effectively.
- Discover how things fall into place if you slow down. The more you're relaxed and at ease, the higher your business's chances to succeed.
- People are responsible for their happiness, and you are responsible for yours. Learn how always to remind yourself not to be a people pleaser by saying, "I'm okay right now as I am. And from here, I can follow that calling or that intuition of what I love rather than what I think will make me okay and make other people think I'm okay."
- Take advantage of the Soul Pleaser Program to tune into your intuition. In doing so, you'll take a lot less action because your action is inspired rather than pushing to make things happen.
Get In Touch With Tracy Secombe:
Facebook (personal profile): https://www.facebook.com/tracy.secombe
Facebook(business/organizational page):https://www.facebook.com/soulpleaser
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-secombe-58979b35/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/TracySecombe
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soul.pleaser/
Website: https://www.tracysecombe.com.au/
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