What if the way you've been showing up in relationships wasn't your fault but it was your responsibility to change?

In this powerful case study, Shawn, a men-ber of the Healthy Men-tality program, shares how his fear of abandonment and ADHD led to intense relationship dynamics, shame, and people-pleasing.

But through the program, he started healing the root issues… not just the surface symptoms.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• What fear of abandonment really looks like in relationships

• How ADHD masked as "laziness" and shaped his beliefs about worth

• Why breathwork changed everything—even though he thought it was BS

• The difference between shame and accountability

• How showing up with integrity shifted how he dates now

• Why he's no longer future-faking or seeking validation

Whether you've been called "too much" in love, struggle to stay present, or overthink your way out of connection… this episode is a must-listen! 

AND MEN - if you're ready to start doing the work to radically transform your relationships (including the one with yourself!) applications for the next round of the Healthy Men-tality program are now available at: www.unblockyourbs.com/healthymen  Click the link to apply and schedule a time to chat and see if this program is the next right step for you!

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Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. I am not a licensed mental health professional or medical provider and cannot diagnose, treat, or prescribe medication for any condition.

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