When you're going through a separation or divorce, the holiday season doesn't feel magical…

it feels like a spotlight on everything that's changed.

Waking up in a quiet house… splitting time with your kids for the first time… trying to act "fine" while everyone around you is celebrating,  it can make even the strongest men feel cracked open.

In this episode, I share what no one prepares you for during the first (or third) holiday season when your family dynamic looks different than you ever imagined and how to survive it without collapsing into shame, isolation, or panic.

More importantly, we talk about how to stop resisting what is so you can start creating a holiday experience that doesn't make you dread December every year.

Episode highlights include:

• Why loneliness hits harder when you're already grieving the life you thought you'd have

• The difference between pain and suffering (and why one is optional)

• How to make this season suck less without forcing joy or pretending you're okay

• Creative ways to redefine holidays when you're without your kids

• What to do when family expectations make everything worse

• How to stop seeing being alone as evidence that you're unlovable

• The mindset shift that turns holidays from something you endure into something you can shape

If this season feels heavy, this episode will help you take back choice, control, and dignity even when nothing looks the way you wanted it to.

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If there was ever a time to have tools instead of just trying to "get through it," it's right now.

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Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. I am not a licensed mental health professional or medical provider and cannot diagnose, treat, or prescribe medication for any condition.

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The views expressed in this podcast are my personal opinions and those of my guests. They are not intended to replace professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Thank you for listening responsibly.