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Is It My Trauma, Or Is It The Relationship?

Is It My Trauma, Or Is It The Relationship?

Update: 2025-09-18

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In this episode we tease apart how to understand if your trauma is impacting the relationship, or whether the relationship is the problem. Knowing what to look for and how to ask the right questions can be half the battle. Join us!

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Is It My Trauma, Or Is It The Relationship?

Is It My Trauma, Or Is It The Relationship?

Tom Philp