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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Author: Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

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btr.org – btr.org has daily, online group and individual coaching sessions for victims of emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion. For women experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to their husband’s abuse: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic abuse. We recognize that labeling a woman as codependent is a form of victim blaming. Pornography addiction / sex addiction are a domestic abuse issue. Narcissistic abuse is not a communication issue. We help women who are in a relationship, separated, or divorced navigate to recover and heal by establishing safety through boundaries. If you suspect your husband is a narcissist, a pornography addict, or emotionally abusive, this podcast is for you. We care about your mental health. Every woman on our team has experienced abuse and betrayal trauma first hand. To learn more about Betrayal Trauma Recovery, visit btr.org
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Did you recently discover your husband's secret pornography use? You deserve support. BTR.ORG has the resources to help you navigate this painful journey.
Does your abuser make big promises but refuse or "forget" to follow through?
After betrayal trauma, many women still feel emotionally unsafe, traumatized, and misunderstood. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Groups empower women to heal and find hope. Our amazing clients share their experiences.
Tania share's her difficult story of living through emotional abuse, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. All while her in-laws are emotionally abusive too.
Are you experiencing narcissistic abuse? It can be hard to spot. These 5 signs will help you know if you're a victim of narcissistic abuse.
Victims of abuse and betrayal begin their journey to healing when they find their voice.
Emotional & Psychological abuse victims "mimic" codependent traits: this is why you're not codependent. Read on to learn more.
Have you wondered, "how do I know if my husband is abusive" See if you relate to Coach Jo's story.
Women who've experienced their husband's emotional abuse share their stories. Find out what helped them.
It's possible to heal from your husband's emotional abuse. See if you relate to Penny's story.
"My husband lied to me," she repeated. If you've just discovered your husband lied to you for years, here's what you need to know.
Sandy's husband abused her by secretly recording and posting intimate videos of her on porn sites. Learn how she came to recognize it as abuse.
You CAN make your way to safety, even if it feels impossible. Learn more here.
Women looking for emotional safety you may choose an in-home separation. If you’ve been considering this, listen to Lindsay’s experience.
After years of being blamed by professionals, women are talking about the best support for betrayal trauma. Listen to their stories.
There are no physical bruises, scars, or blood, but the pain is real. Anne talks about hidden abuses and the 6 Stages to Heal From Hidden Abuse.
When your husband participates in a secret sexual life, whether it's over the internet, with another person, or in his own thoughts, his pornography use is abusive to you.
Here's Joyce's story of escaping emotional abuse with Anne's help. And how the emotional abuse affected her body.
If your husband has betrayed you, you're not alone. Many women courageously share their stories. If you feel isolated, you might find solace in this woman's experience.
Victim blaming is rampant in the abuse and betrayal community. It is NOT your fault. When others blame you for HIS choices, you are harmed. BTR can help.
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Bethany Kuhlig

This speaker mentions a book and I have heard about it a few times but I couldn't catch the name. Could you tell me the name so I can order it please?

Mar 23rd
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Marnie Crisp

Hearing and understand the message was difficult for me during this episode due to the use of the term "girls" while referring to adult women. The use of a word for adolescent females should not be included in consensual sexual safety dialogue about marital betrayal.

Aug 14th
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Sara Lasenby

hi. I would really like to listen to coach Sarah's podcast. how do I find it? please. many thanks.

Jun 4th
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Carolan

Great show thank you both.

Nov 18th
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Kati Florida

Why do you insist on bringing porn into EVERY podcast? Your guests will have a whole story and you’re like “yeah! But porn is bad” and you can hear that it throws your guests off, when they hadn’t even brought it up in THEIR story..only you do!! Obsessed much?

Sep 27th
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Somerset Davidson

Thank you for giving a voice to the victims. Thank you for giving us the words we didn't know we had, the strength we didn't see and the ability to be heard and validated. Your podcast helps those of us that have been so manipulated by chaos to find clarity and peace. Thank you for your courageous actions to face the abusers, the liars and manipulators, to take a stand and offer a community to the victims, so that we can be validated, heal and live productively. You are a true advocate.

Sep 17th
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BTR admirer

Oh Connie! I'm so glad to hear your story. I am going through the EXACT SAME thing. A lot of his family saw the abuse and acting out. But when he left, suddenly I was the abuser, terrible mother and wife, liar....... everything you described. And now they're banding together to attack me through the family court system here in Australia. All the best to you and the beautiful women experiencing the same.

Sep 5th
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Nicole Brewer

This was huge for me to listen to both podcasts. Brought me to tears! My husband is an alcoholic who lies constantly. I keep trying to save our marriage while he does nothing. I’m glad to know I’m not alone.

Sep 1st
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Amy Hawthorne

I can relate to this so much. I feel seen and validated, thank you so much ❤

Feb 19th
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Alanna Wolfe Van Leeuwen

I was surprised by the 10% stat of men who will try to overcome this addiction, but not all succeed. My husband is one of them who has overcome, but it did take him over 5 years and he had a 40 year addiction! He is now actively involved in helping other men through The Conquer series and Seven Pillars by Pure Desire Ministries.

Sep 28th
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Jennifer Grace Hebel

this is great, very insightful-thank you!

May 27th
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Megan Iorg

BTR is a lifeline and a personal resource for me. The moments of solace and understanding as I listen are a blessing -throughout an arduous journey of pain & destruction. I feel inspired to reclaim confidence, self-respect, and to remember life BEFORE gaslighting and betrayal. The ever-present, insidiously amplifying behaviors of a S/A cannot be "fixed" with my false sense of control and pleading for mercy. Now, I will reach out to the intensively trained counselors, accept/ offer support to others, and focus on my spirituality. Thank you so much, A Fellow S.H.E.R.O.

Nov 28th
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Felicia Simard

I have been reaching out. Asking for an accountability partner within my church to help cope with mental states, with no response back. I joined Codependents Anonymous (CoDA) online, which wasn't the community connections I thought it would be. I believe one on one in person is probably effective other wise you write on a message board and someone may get back to you that day or in a week. It can feel hopeless via online. I downloaded these podcasts in a last attempt to salvage what little sanity I was trying to rebuild. These podcasts have been the single most helpful 'tools' I have gained since my last 'internally drowning' episode. Obviously professional counselling and going in person to groups such as CoDA would be alot more beneficial. If your like me and transportation or finances make it so that those aren't really attainable at this present time then this is a GO TO! It's instilled HOPE and made me feel understood (which feels like half the battle at times.) Even though I'm th

Oct 18th
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