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Martian Evan Daniels, a reinvention strategist and influence expert, joins Jenna Kutcher on the Gold Digger podcast to discuss the importance of unshakeable self-belief, finding your purpose, and embracing resilience in the face of change. Martian emphasizes the need for a higher vision and a deeper understanding of one's purpose beyond just a paycheck. She introduces the concept of "Godfidence," a combination of understanding who you are and how you've been made, and outlines her "Purpose Map," a five-stage framework for divine reinvention. Martian shares her own personal journey of resilience, including a public wedding cancellation and a period of self-doubt, and encourages listeners to embrace disruption and ask the right questions to discover their true calling. She emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people who see your potential and challenge you to believe bigger. Martian also shares practical tips for cultivating resilience, including writing down your wins and overcoming negative self-talk. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the importance of being present with your children and embracing the messy and unpredictable nature of life.

Outlines

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Unshakable Self-Belief

This Chapter discusses the importance of unshakeable self-belief and how it comes from having a higher vision and challenging yourself to remember how unique and exquisite you are. It emphasizes the need for a daily practice of self-affirmation and remembering your worth.

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Cultivating Unshakable Self-Belief

This Chapter explores practical steps to cultivate unshakeable self-belief. Martian introduces the concept of "Godfidence," a combination of understanding who you are and how you've been made, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing your higher purpose and having a vision that calls you to rise up. She also discusses the dangers of equating purpose with a paycheck and the need to tap into a vision that invites you to be the highest version of yourself.

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The Purpose Map

This Chapter introduces Martian's "Purpose Map," a five-stage framework for divine reinvention. The stages include Discovery, Talent, The Gap, The Glory Zone, and Influence. Martian explains how each stage represents a different phase of personal growth and how women often get stuck in the Talent stage, worshipping their titles and labels instead of embracing their true mission. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing that disruption and challenges are opportunities for growth and awakening.

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Shifting Out of The Gap

This Chapter focuses on how to shift out of the "Gap" stage of the Purpose Map, where women often experience doubt and uncertainty. Martian shares her own experience of calling off her wedding and the subsequent journey of self-discovery. She encourages listeners to ask the right questions, believe in their own worth, and lean into the voices and experiences that stir something inside of them. She also emphasizes the importance of curiosity and embracing the burning bush moments that lead to new destinies.

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Embracing Reinvention

This Chapter explores the concept of reinvention and how it's not about changing who you are, but changing what you do so you can be who you are. Martian shares her own journey of reinvention, from her early career in sports management to her current work as a reinvention strategist. She encourages listeners to embrace the unknown and to see challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation.

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The Importance of Resilience

This Chapter delves into the importance of resilience and how it's developed through embracing change and adapting to challenges. Martian shares her own experience of raising triplets during the pandemic and how it has shifted her priorities and redefined her purpose. She encourages listeners to take inventory of their own wins and to write down a list of things they've overcome. She also emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people who see your potential and challenge you to believe bigger.

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Resistance as Assistance

This Chapter explores the concept of resistance as assistance and how it can be a catalyst for growth and transformation. Martian shares her own experience of navigating personal and professional challenges and how it has led to a deeper understanding of her purpose and a greater capacity for leadership. She encourages listeners to embrace the messy and unpredictable nature of life and to trust that God is working through their challenges to bring them to a place of greater purpose and abundance.

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Q&A

• What is "Godfidence" and how does it differ from traditional confidence?

  Godfidence is a term coined by Martian Evan Daniels that refers to a combination of understanding who you are, who created you, and how you've been made. It goes beyond traditional confidence and is rooted in a deeper sense of purpose and connection to a higher power. While traditional confidence might be based on external achievements or validation, Godfidence is grounded in an inner knowing of your worth and potential, which comes from a belief in a higher purpose and a connection to something greater than yourself.

• What are the five stages of Martian's "Purpose Map" and how can they help women navigate their personal and professional journeys?

  Martian's "Purpose Map" outlines five stages of divine reinvention: Discovery, Talent, The Gap, The Glory Zone, and Influence. Each stage represents a different phase of personal growth and helps individuals identify their true calling and purpose. The Discovery stage involves learning the rules and societal expectations, while the Talent stage focuses on developing skills and achieving goals. The Gap stage is a period of transition and uncertainty, where individuals may experience doubt and a sense of being lost. The Glory Zone represents a breakthrough into one's gifts and potential, while the Influence stage involves using those gifts to make a positive impact on the world. By understanding these stages, women can better navigate their own journeys of self-discovery and transformation.

• How can we cultivate resilience in the face of challenges and setbacks?

  Cultivating resilience involves developing a strong inner belief in oneself, cultivating a positive mindset, and surrounding oneself with supportive people who can help navigate challenges. Martian suggests taking inventory of your own wins and writing down a list of things you've overcome. She also emphasizes the importance of challenging negative self-talk and replacing it with a more positive and empowering inner dialogue. By surrounding yourself with people who see your potential and challenge you to believe bigger, you can create a supportive environment that fosters resilience and growth.

• What is the importance of being present with your children and how can we balance our personal and professional goals with our family life?

  Being present with your children is crucial for their development and well-being. It involves being fully engaged with them, listening to them, and showing them love and support. Balancing personal and professional goals with family life requires prioritizing, setting boundaries, and finding ways to integrate your passions into your family life. Martian emphasizes the importance of recognizing that your children are a significant part of your purpose and that your journey of self-discovery and transformation can be shared with them.

• How can we embrace the messy and unpredictable nature of life and find meaning in the midst of challenges?

  Embracing the messy and unpredictable nature of life involves accepting that things won't always go according to plan and that challenges are inevitable. It requires developing a sense of flexibility, adaptability, and a willingness to learn and grow from our experiences. Martian encourages listeners to see challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation and to trust that God is working through their challenges to bring them to a place of greater purpose and abundance.

• What is the role of supportive relationships in our personal and professional journeys?

  Supportive relationships are essential for our personal and professional growth. They provide us with encouragement, accountability, and a sense of belonging. Martian emphasizes the importance of surrounding ourselves with people who see our potential, challenge us to believe bigger, and support us through difficult times. These relationships can help us to overcome challenges, stay motivated, and achieve our goals.

• How can we find our true purpose and calling in life?

  Finding your true purpose and calling involves a process of self-discovery and exploration. It requires asking yourself the right questions, embracing disruption, and being open to new possibilities. Martian encourages listeners to ask themselves, "What is the purpose of this stage and season I find myself in?" and to lean into the experiences and voices that stir something inside of them. By embracing curiosity, challenging your limiting beliefs, and surrounding yourself with supportive people, you can begin to uncover your true purpose and calling.

• What is the significance of Martian's "burning bush moment" and how can we recognize these moments in our own lives?

  A "burning bush moment" is a significant event or experience that sparks a sense of curiosity and leads to a new destiny. It is often characterized by a feeling of being called to something greater and a willingness to step out of one's comfort zone. These moments can be subtle or dramatic, but they always involve a shift in perspective and a willingness to embrace the unknown. Recognizing these moments in your own life requires paying attention to your intuition, being open to new possibilities, and trusting your inner guidance.

• How can we use our experiences to inspire and empower others?

  Sharing our experiences, both the triumphs and the challenges, can inspire and empower others. By being vulnerable and authentic, we can create a sense of connection and understanding with others who may be facing similar challenges. Martian encourages listeners to share their stories and to use their experiences to help others on their own journeys of self-discovery and transformation.

• What is the importance of embracing the messy and unpredictable nature of life?

  Embracing the messy and unpredictable nature of life involves accepting that things won't always go according to plan and that challenges are inevitable. It requires developing a sense of flexibility, adaptability, and a willingness to learn and grow from our experiences. Martian encourages listeners to see challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation and to trust that God is working through their challenges to bring them to a place of greater purpose and abundance.

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