Mindset of the Avoidantly Attached Partner

Update: 2025-04-17

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Join us in this episode where we discuss the mindset (Internal Working Model) of the avoidantly attached partner. Not trusting that others will be there for them, led them to turn off their longing for connection. They value their own independence and autonomy and are great at self-soothing. To rework their IWM, they need to learn to reach out to others and trust that other can be a dependable resource of comfort and soothing.

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Mindset of the Avoidantly Attached Partner

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Mindset of the Avoidantly Attached Partner

Tom Philp

Mindset of the Avoidantly Attached Partner