Eight Dates

by John Gottman

Introduction

What’s in it for me? Discover the secrets to love-filled relationships by going on eight dates.

Love is a fickle(changeable) thing. The majority of us have felt love at some point(sometime) in our lives,

and many of us are currently(at present) in love with people we’re honored to call our partners. But

whether you’re newly in love or have been together for decades(decade=10years), there’s no question

you’ve experienced moments of doubt about your partnership. Maybe you’ve wondered if this is the

right person for you, or if you can imagine growing old with your partner. Do your goals, personalities

and beliefs align(in the same direction)?

The following chapters help you answer such questions and bring even more love into your relationship.

Each chapter will outline(summarize) one of the eight dates all couples should go on, with each date

focusing on an area that couples need to discuss in order for their relationship to thrive(grow, advance).

The order of the dates is not important. Start with whichever one feels right to you, but make sure to go

through all of them. For maximum effectiveness(productivity), read these chapters together with your partner, so that you’re both on the same page(Understand a situation in the same way) when date night arrives.

In these chapters, you’ll learn

• why fighting can be a positive part of a relationship;

• how your experiences as a child can play a big role in your present relationship; and

• why only a third of couples with children are as happy as before they became parents.

🟢📚هایلایت مقدمه خلاصه کتاب Eight dates 📚🟢

✅ introduction :مقدمه

✅ discover : کشف کردن

✅ secret : راز

✅ love-filled: پر از عشق

✅ relationship : رابطه 

✅ fickle : بی ثبات

✅ majority : اکثریت

✅ at some point : یه زمانی

✅ currently : در حال حاضر

✅ honored : مفتخر

✅ newly : به تازگی

✅ decades : دهه ها

✅ experience : تجربه کردن

✅ doubt: شک

✅ partnership : رابطه، شراکت

✅ imagine : تصور کردن

✅ goals: اهداف

✅ personality : شخصیت

✅ beliefs : باورها

✅ align : هم راستا بودن

✅ outline : خلاصه

✅ couple : زوج

✅ focus: تمرکز کردن

✅ thrive : رشد کردن

✅ whichever one: هر کدام

✅ effectiveness: بازدهی 

✅ to be on the same page : درک مشترک داشتن

✅ fighting : جنگیدن

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